Karen Knight - May 26, 2022 / 4:00 am | Story: 369925
The position of volunteer engagement specialist, or whatever your particular title is, is often seen as a lower-level position, without a lot of influence.
Executives in the organization often forget itâs a vital leadership position, with all the challenges and responsibilities that entails.
If you want to enhance your influence in your organization, you need to be seen as a leader. Hereâs how:
Be a team playerâThe best leaders also make great followers. They work for the success of the organization as a whole. That means they are willing to use their skills and resources to help other projects. Donât neglect your own duties or burn yourself out, but if another department in your organization is behind on a project and you have a volunteer with skills that may help, offer to transfer him or her until the other department catches up. Being seen as someone with the interests of the entire organization at heart will win you friends and enhance your influence.
Be an advocateâFor the volunteers, of course, but also for the volunteer administration profession itself. Treat your position as the career it is, with professional accreditations and international associations. The more seriously you take the role, the greater respect others will have for it. Tell the executive you are studying for your CVA (certified in volunteer administration) or youâre joining the IAVE (International Association for Volunteer Effort). Assuming you are, of course. Let them know your position is seen internationally as a professional leadership role. Expect the respect and consideration that should come with such a position.
Share your ideasâSpeak up in meetings when you have ideas for both the volunteer program and other aspects of the organization. Make suggestions for improving things. Be careful not to step on anyoneâs toes or talk about things that you donât know anything about. But if you have an idea, share it. Donât be upset if someone shoots it down. They may have access to information you donât. Itâs the whole matter of speaking truth or wisdom to power. It takes courage but itâs necessary if you want to enhance your influence with senior management.
Ask intelligent questionsâIf youâre still uncomfortable with proposing an idea, phrase it like a question such as âWould it work better if we did something like X?â Questions like that can often start a discussion that can lead to effective solutions. This works outside of meetings, as well as questions of other staff, especially if there are connection points between your position and theirs. By learning more about what they do, and their challenges and triumphs, you can come up with better ways of working together. Iâve often seen it happen that a couple of people have found that they were dealing with similar challenges, and by presenting their solution to the executive as a team, they had better outcomes than by trying to change things individually.
TeachâThe best way to be seen as an expert in your field is to teach others about it. Ask to do a training course for staff about the volunteer program, how it helps the organization and how it can help them specifically. See if you can give regular presentations to the board about aspects of the volunteer program, results of changes youâve implemented or impacts the volunteers have made. If you can teach about your role, others will see you as a leader.
You donât need to have a fancy title or a corner office to be seen as a leader in your organization. You become a leader when you start acting like one and by being a team player, advocating for the profession, sharing your ideas, asking questions, teaching and most of all, by seeing yourself as the leader you are.
Thatâs how you enhance your influence.
This article is written by or on behalf of an outsourced columnist and does not necessarily reflect the views of Castanet.
Karen Knight - May 19, 2022 / 4:00 am | Story: 369318
How aware are you of issues around the language of volunteering?
I had some interesting questions posed to me this week: âHow does language act as a barrier or a catalyst for volunteering? For example, should we, as leaders of volunteers, talk about âusingâ our volunteers? Or does that objectify them and treat them as just things, like paperclips, to be used? What other words might be better?"
After I was asked these questions, I went back over months of my past blogs looking to see if I had ever said âuseâ in that context. I have to admit that I had. Not often, but it was there.
Another problematic word I found was speaking of âyourâ volunteers, a word that denotes ownership. Using it about people is scary. Or is it? I also commonly say things like âyour sisterâ or âmy sonâ. How else would I say that? âThe male child of my bodyâ? There are no easy answers.
But do the words actually matter? Our society, at least in Western countries, has become far more aware of the negative connotations of words.
On LinkedIn the other day, I saw a post about the importance of âhuman skillsâ, and someone made a comment that they were glad to see that the person posting didnât say âsoft skillsâ. The word âsoftâ was considered by them to be weak, as opposed to the stronger âhard skillsâ.
I had never thought of it that way but I can see how it might be viewed as such. The important thing is that other people do see it that way. So, I try to avoid that phrase now.
Are specific words actually barriers or catalysts? That decision is really above my pay grade. Itâs something some university program should do a study on.
That said, in my opinion, if there are even a few people who see this as an issue then we, as leaders, should to be cognizant of it and make every effort to avoid words that could be seen as denigrating or objectifying.
Letâs face it, it wasnât that long ago the âNâ word was considered just a word, and why would anyone be upset about it? Our world is changing and we need to change with it.
More importantly, we need to be the leaders of that change. Those of us in the sector care about how people feel. What the dictionary says a word means is less important than how people feel when they hear it. Especially when people hear it in relation to themselves.
So, can words constitute a barrier to someone volunteering? Assume the answer is yes.
Until Oxford or Harvard does some sort of double-blind sociological study on the language of volunteering, err on the side of kindness. Find words like âinvolveâ rather than âuseâ, âengageâ rather than âmanageâ.
If youâre unsure about how a word might be viewed, ask someone. Have a person â preferably someone with a different world view than yours â review your writing and tell you what they think.
English is an amazing, diverse language with multiple synonyms for just about every word. Some of them might not jump to mind right away but they are there. If you have problems, check out a thesaurus.
If youâre worried people might not understand a synonym you choose, donât be. In my years in leadership and in public speaking, Iâve learned everyone has two vocabularies. One contains the words we use regularly, the other contains those we understand but rarely, if ever, use.
The second vocabulary is vastly larger than the first. Everyone has a thousand or more words they understand completely, but would never think to use in a sentence. We hear them on TV or read them in articles. Newscasts are full of them. People understand more than you might think. Or you could simply restructure your sentences so there isnât a need for the word. Instead of saying âwhat do you use your volunteers for?â try âhow do you involve your volunteers?â
Trust your own writing abilities. It may take a while to get comfortable with different sentence structures but soon itâll come naturally.
So, letâs get back to the original question. If an organization said in a volunteer posting that it âuses its volunteers to do Xâ, would people not apply simply because of that?
Frankly, I donât know. Personally, I just try to avoid using any words that might be questionable.
As long as you stay aware of the changing landscape in the language of volunteering, and you remain considerate of everyoneâs feelings, youâll be fine.
This article is written by or on behalf of an outsourced columnist and does not necessarily reflect the views of Castanet.
Karen Knight - May 12, 2022 / 4:00 am | Story: 368663
Is "firing" a volunteer OK? The short answer is, absolutely.
Not only can you fire a volunteer, in many cases you must. I know, lots of people say you ought to be thankful for whatever someone is willing to give, but in reality, a poor volunteer can be a disaster for your organization. It really is true that one bad apple can spoil the barrel.
And bad apples come in a number of varieties:
âGranny Smithâ
Regardless of age or sex, there are some volunteers who are stuck in the past. These are the ones who say things like: âBut weâve always done it this way!â They resist change, no matter how much it will help the organization. They can be passive-aggressive and may spread gossip to undermine attempts to update things.
âPink Ladyâ
These volunteers (and theyâre not just female) are in it for themselves. They volunteer, not to help the organization or its clients but to make themselves look good or to get close to people they want to know. That isnât the problem. What is a problem is when they refuse to do some of the harder tasks or only show up when they think theyâll be noticed by someone important. They do the minimum amount of work and that work is often done poorly.
âEmpireâ
Certain volunteers seem to feel the organization belongs to them. Rules are for other people. If they have a problem, they often go over the head of the volunteer coordinator to the executive directorâor even directly to the board. These âproblemsâ tend to be things that interfere with how they want to do things. Their constant complaining and rule-breaking causes resentment and conflict.
âPlain Old Rottenâ
The vocal bigots who use racial, sexist or homophobic slurs (or âjokesâ). The thieves who try to get at your petty cash or other volunteersâ purses. The predators who stalk people they see as victims. Theyâre dangerous. Get rid of them fast.
All of these volunteer varieties may need to be fired.
The âRottenâ ones are easy.
Not only are they a danger to individuals but the fact that they are with you can destroy your organizationâs reputation. Donât give them second chances. The moment you have proof, take away any keys, etc, they may have and tell them you canât accept their services any longer. Escort them off the premises, inform the rest of the staff and change any passwords.
With âGranny Smithsâ you may be able to win them over.
Try different things to get them on your side. Include them in a decision-making committee, be willing to bend on small things to get the major change accepted, etc. If nothing works, take the volunteer aside and tell them that, if they canât support the changes, you will have to stop giving them shifts. Show your appreciation for what theyâve done in the past but make it clear the wellbeing of the organization comes first. They need to either adapt or leave. If nothing changes, or if their old habits creep back after a couple of weeks, give them one reminder, then end the relationship.
Do you have a âPink Ladyâ?
Call them aside, tell them what youâve seen and let them know itâs unacceptable. Stay objective. Only comment on performance, not on personality. Be prepared for resistance. They see a value to themselves in their position with you and will likely defend themselves vigorously. Stay firm. This is where sticking to factual comments about their performance can help you. Emphasize a volunteer needs to do all the tasks assigned to that role, no matter how distasteful, and you require them to show up for all their shifts. Some may just quit at this point. If they donât, give them a couple of weeks to prove they will change. If they wonât, ask them to leave.
âEmpireâ volunteers can destroy a volunteer program amazingly quickly.
Donât wait before moving on this one! Remind them of the rules. Explain why those rules are in place and why everyone needs to follow them. Let them know that if they continue as they were, that you will no longer allow them to volunteer. Advise your executive director and/or board what you have said, as the volunteer will likely try to have them overturn your decision. In this case, because they are well aware that they are ignoring the rules, fire them the very next time it happens. They donât need second chances.
In all cases, protect yourself. Keep records of what they did (or didnât do) and of your conversations with the volunteer.
Firing a volunteer can be hard, but it can also be essential to keeping your volunteer program strong. Poor volunteers will cause disruptions in services, disputes among team members and even harm to clients.
It may not be easy, but you can do it.
This article is written by or on behalf of an outsourced columnist and does not necessarily reflect the views of Castanet.
Karen Knight - May 5, 2022 / 4:00 am | Story: 367943
Ann really wanted the position. She did whatever it took to get it, but once she had it, things started to fall apart.
Other things took priority for her. She started missing shifts, work wasnât done to standard â or wasnât done at all.
I spoke with Ann about it a few times but didnât see any improvement, so finally I âfiredâ her (yes, you can fire a volunteer and Iâll talk about that later).
But was there something better I could have done?
Probably. In the time since then, Iâve thought of a few ways I could have kept Ann as a volunteer, but still ensured the work was completed well and on time. In case youâre dealing with a challenging volunteer, here are a few tips.
Talk with them
Yes, I did do this with Ann and it didnât work, but a majority of times it will. Find out if something has changed in their life situation. Are they feeling overwhelmed or unsure of themselves in the position? Do they think that more training, or having a mentor will help?
Or maybe itâs the other way around. Maybe theyâre not finding the position much of a challenge and theyâre bored. Can you âpromoteâ them, or have them mentor someone else?
Re-match them
It might be that the position just isnât what they thought it would be. Is there another position that would suit them better?
To know this, of course, you need to have a good understanding of what theyâre looking for in a volunteer position. So, ask them. And if they say âI just want to help,â dig deeper.
Keep a file of the likes, dislikes, skills and interests of all the agencyâs volunteers. That way you can match them with roles that keep them engaged and active. It takes a bit of effort to gather all this information, but it is worth it in terms of the quality of work, and your retention rates.
Be flexible
This is especially important if you have younger volunteers, like Ann, whose lives are constantly in flux.
Build certain of your roles with flexibility in mind. Tasks that can be done at various times of the day or week. Tasks that allow the volunteer autonomy in how they are accomplished. Allow longer or shorter shifts, or in person or online attendance.
The more options you embrace, the more people will be able to fit helping you into their schedules.
Look in the mirror
Letâs face it, sometimes itâs not the volunteer. Itâs us. We all have unconscious biases. Is it possible that you are letting one of them influence you?
Are the volunteers being shown appreciation often enough? (My rule is to thank every volunteer, every shift.)
Are you uncomfortable delegating responsibility, leading volunteers to feel you lack trust in them?
There are many things that we might be doing that could be causing or worsening the situation, without us even being aware of it. Itâs always worth stepping back and taking an objective look at yourself and your procedures.
If nothing else works, you actually may need to fire them
There are some troublesome volunteers that you just donât want in your organization. People who will damage your organizationâs reputation, drive away other volunteers, or worse. In that case, you do need to get rid of them. Itâs not easy, but sometimes it needs to be done.
Mostly, though, there are things we can do and still keep the volunteer.
If, when I talked with Ann, I had used some of these tips, she might still be volunteering. If I had focused more on her needs and less on the problem, or if I had been more flexible around how the tasks were done. Or if I had just found a more suitable position for her in the organization, I might not have had to fire her.
I could have taken a lose-lose-lose situation (her, myself and the organization), and turned it into a win-win-win.
So next time you are faced with a troublesome volunteer, take my advice and try a few other things before you decide to fire them.
In next weekâs article, I will discuss what to do if you do have to fire a volunteer. Iâll identify some of the âbad apples,â and give you ways to handle them effectively.
(Special thanks to Lori Gran for suggesting todayâs topic.)
This article is written by or on behalf of an outsourced columnist and does not necessarily reflect the views of Castanet.
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